Chima Azuka
New member
Its intresting how God created the man and the woman.
How men and women look at a challenge are often completely different.
Women often want to process it emotionally first.
Men just want process it logically first.
A man walking a woman through a challenge with the hope of helping her could likely upset the woman if he is not playing to the emotional gallery first. If he presents the logic of how to get out of the problem, she reads it as him dismissing her feelings.
A woman attempting to walk a man through a challenge and spend more time trying to acknowledge his feelings, which half the time he is trying to shut out, may risk upsetting the man.
Both sides are valid and have their place but both genders have to understand this to know how to embrace the value that each of them bring in their difference.
How men and women look at a challenge are often completely different.
Women often want to process it emotionally first.
Men just want process it logically first.
A man walking a woman through a challenge with the hope of helping her could likely upset the woman if he is not playing to the emotional gallery first. If he presents the logic of how to get out of the problem, she reads it as him dismissing her feelings.
A woman attempting to walk a man through a challenge and spend more time trying to acknowledge his feelings, which half the time he is trying to shut out, may risk upsetting the man.
Both sides are valid and have their place but both genders have to understand this to know how to embrace the value that each of them bring in their difference.