Questions to Ask and Get Answers to Before You Marry Someone

[Ijeoma Chinemerem]

Questions You Must Ask and Get the Appropriate Answers to Before You Marry Someone

1. What are your core values?

Don’t marry someone who has no core values.

People that don’t have core values will embarrass you. They are always shameless.

 

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2. Would you like to have children?

You will be shocked that some people don't want children.

 

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3. Where would you like to live after our wedding?

This is particularly important if both of you live in different cities or different areas (Lagos vs. Abuja, Island vs. Mainland or Nigeria vs. Abroad)

 

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4. Where are going to be worshipping after wedding?

Choose a denomination if both of you are Christians.

 

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5. What will you do if we are unable to have children for years?

Don’t choose someone who only sees you as a baby f a c t o r y or s p e r m donor.

 

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6. Do you have any medical history I need to know about?

Health crisis can make a woman remove her uterus to save her life. Health crisis can also make a man’s erectile organ dysfunctional.

There’s a man and woman for everyone despite the person’s medical history.

 

[Ijeoma Chinemerem]

7. Do you intend to bring any of your relatives to live with you when you are married?

No surprises.

If you are going to be paying black tax, you need to know from the beginning. Plans might change in the future but know some basic things before you start.